Double Standard

I hate double standards. I hate them with a passion. However this life is full of them. A man can sleep with as many women as he wants and will always get more women and will always get a pat on the back from his buddies. A woman who does the same or even half of the same thing will get disrespected, slandered, gossipped about and labeled as damaged goods. I have seen it with my own eyes. I have seen a guy get back with the same clothes from yesterday and get a fist pound from his boys for his latest conquest. I have heard men talking about which girls they knew they could sleep with. How incredibly disgusting. Do we do anything about it? No! Why? because "boys will be boys" isnt that what we've been saying since they were two? MAN UP! Ok so let's pretend that it's the woman's fault. The woman should be chaste and have self control and be good. Will most guys pay any attention to her? Not really. So being "good" doesn't always demand respect of any kind. So what do we do? Should a woman embrace sexuality to the extent that a man does and try and demand the same respect that men are so carefully able to maintain?  I don't think so. Ladies it's time to up the standard. I don't want a man who doesnt have the balls to respect me. I don't want to deal with a man whose only interest is to brag to his friends about how i was compared to the last girl. I don't want anything to do with that kind of man. It may be a lonely road but I'm holding out for my romantic ending. Men, it's time for you to grow up. Guess what you aren't fooling anyone with your pathetic act. Learn to appreciate and respect a woman. Quit blaming others for your own mistakes. Quit expecting a woman to give you everything she has and holds precious within one day of meeting you. Learn to believe in love. GROW UP